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It’s been a while since I have done a post reflecting on some of the common questions and comments I get about running. While this is not going to be something dramatically more insightful than anything I have written in the past—so I have included a round up of all my related posts that are a bit more specific and research-based at the end of this post. The marathon frenzy is going to pick up considerably this fall, so I hope this post may be useful to some of you that might be running-curious, but are reluctant to actually call yourself a “runner.”
It took me a long time to gain the confidence to call myself a runner. I was never a track star in high school. In fact, I could barely run a mile consecutively until sophomore year of college despite being in great aerobic shape. So I understand when readers say the just can’t get through a few miles or they hit the wall by mile four. We all have challenges and we can all over come them, I AM PROOF THAT ANYONE CAN RUN A MARATHON, if they want to. Like I always say, you don’t have to be a runner. It is not the holy grail of exercise. However, it is nice for a few reasons:
- It’s fairly low cost and you can do it on almost a moments notice, pretty much anywhere
- There are established goals, such as races and marathons that can motivate you and keep you inspired…or at least begrudgingly committed.
- While there is definitely an established culture of runners to network with, it is also nice that you don’t necessarily need to deal with the logistics of a team sport. It can be as social or as anti-social as you want it to be.
So back to challenges. Running is challenging. I am by no means an excellent runner. In fact, my only true running skill is being able to do it for fairly long periods of time, which was a cultivated skill. I still get frustrated that I struggle to gain speed, and push myself to get out of my pace comfort zone. I definitely look up to countless blogging runners, like Meghann,who PR on every race, for motivation to train a wee bit harder or at least keep at it!
So back to a common questions I get.
Why can’t I run? and How do you build distance?
First off, you can be a runner if you want to, but it may not happen over night. Some people build up with the run a minute, walk a minute method, but when I started out, I found that frustrating and it seemed to be that once, I stopped, I was done. So I think becoming a “runner” and building distance takes time. You can build one minute at a time or 5 minutes at a time, don’t try to add a mile at a time. If you can run for 5 minutes, run for 6 minutes the next time out. Then next week, run 7 minutes. I recommend a watch, and not trying to run too often. Keep your other favorite exercises in your routine and run maybe two times a week. Don’t burn yourself out! In the beginning it should be fun, not frustrating!
Like I always, say sign up for a 5K, so you have a goal to work toward, this is key.
Why can’t I run more than 3 miles?
If you are past the 5K mark and looking to move toward 10Ks or halfs but are struggling after 4-5 miles. You are most likely running too fast. You are definitely physically able to run 6 miles, but you are burning your body out by starting out too fast. It can be hard to slow yourself down and feel like you are slogging along, but try it just once. Or better yet, run with a friend who runs at a slower pace than you. Getting used to spending the extra time on your feet, even if you don’t reach your mileage goal, will prepare your body for longer distances.
One you are past the 5K point, you can add 1/4 or 1/2 miles rather than focusing on minutes, if you want to. Typically once you are at 5-6 miles, if you are looking to train for longer distances, it is fine to start adding a mile a week to your weekly long run. Check out Runner’s World for novice and intermediate training plans.
Here is something I found surprising. One of the reasons I wanted to run a marathon was because I thought, once I have run 26 miles, I will never have trouble running 5 or 6 again. It will be an easy daily workout length. Shocker, sometimes, even now, 3 miles is torturous, and other days 12 miles glide by almost unnoticed.
I HATE RUNNING! What do I do?
Don’t worry I did (and sometimes still do) too! It was exactly that frustration that made me determined to runa marathon when I had never run farther than 3.1 miles, except maybe 1 crazy-long 5 miler on the treadmill.
Here is a little secret, and I don’t mean to be a downer, but running is rarely “fun” or ”easy.” I think there has to be a teensy weensy bit of masoconist in every runner. Even amazing runners, like Dean Karnanzes, will say, running is not fun. It can be exhilarating, challenging, rewarding, fulfilling, maybe even refreshing or energizing, but the pure spirit of the sport is not fun. Other runners will say 9 out of 10 runs are miserable, but that 10th one makes up for all the wretchedness that came before it.
“”The body does not want you to do this. As you run, it tells you to stop but the mind must be strong. You always go too far for your body. You must handle the pain with strategy…It is not age; it is not diet. It is the will to succeed.” Jacqueline Gareau
While there is fun to be had, chatty long runs with friensd, the post-race celebrations, the happy dance after a new PR, on a daily basis, I don’t really consider running to be fun. I am happy if it is quasi-enjoyable.
Why do I keep running then? I like the goal-oriented spirit of running. Have a race to train for keeps me motivated and inspired, even if every run isn’t great. I like overcoming the mental battle. I like having a network that shares my love/and ocassionally hate relationship with running.
There are periods where I really do enjoy running and most of my daily runs are even borderline fun, or at least personally fulfilling. I do love the challenge of a long run, I love the creativity of mapping out a route I can get excited about and then completing that mission. Right now, I am in a kind of semi-obsessed phase, where i can’t wait until my next run. These periods are sometimes rare, but when I am in the running/race mode they seem to become more frequent.
All of this is to say, that I don’t think it is fair to tell people they should expect to fall in love with running, and for it to become fun and easy. I don’t think it does for everyone. I think the challenge is one of the things that keeps me going. Running doesn’t become comfortable, it keeps me on my toes. There is always something greater to strive toward. And the magic of finishing a marathon is, in its own way, life changing.
So if you do decide that you want to add running to your routine, even though you absolutely love spinning or you are addicted to pilates, take it slow and know that even if it is not the same instantaneous I can’t wait to do this again feeling, you can find a satisfying and rewarding relationship with running or you can decide its not for you and settle back into the joys of downward dog.
For more info, here is a round up of posts related to running tips, training and common running questions:
So you want to be a runner? Part 1
So you want to be a runner Part 2






